Real talk: every day pretty much feels the exact same.
It’s ordinary and, truth be told, probably looks boring to the general population. After two weeks exploring Israel, my regular life doesn’t feel much like a grand adventure.
I work hard and give my all, but it doesn’t seem worth writing home about. I self-published a book that I fully believe in, but it didn’t climb to the tip top of any charts. I go to church on Sunday mornings, bible study on Monday evenings, and Starbucks throughout the week because I don’t have any coworkers, the days are quiet, and I get (very) lonely.
I guess what I’m saying is this: most of the time real life is plain vanilla.
Ice cream or yogurt, you decide. Sometimes there are toppings or fruit or something yummy added in, but at the core it’s regular — no matter who you are or what you do.
The truth of it all is that although I love what I do and it has value, . It won’t win an award or garner an invitation to something that sounds impressive. I won’t stand on a red carpet or give an acceptance speech.
It’s important, I know this.
It’s exactly what I’m supposed to be doing in this season. I’m confident of that even when I don’t understand it.
But it won’t stop you in your tracks.
My work might catch your eye, but even then you won’t know that I had a hand in it because, well, behind-the-scenes.
I’m in a season of gleaning. (“Season” is used loosely here. Because, um, tomorrow marks one year since I admitted that, although good, life totally doesn’t look like what I imagined. And that life and job I didn’t dream of but began to live out? It’s still my daily ordinary.)
Before I lose you, let me explain gleaning real quick. Because I’m pretty sure you’re a gleaner, too.
Gleaning is important work but it’s far from glamorous. In the Old Testament, especially in the story of Ruth, when it was time for harvesting the reapers would gather the majority of the crop and then the gleaners would come behind and pick up whatever was dropped or left over. Each person had their role in the story and ultimately, gleaning showed God’s provision.
Our world today is quite different from that of Bethlehem three thousand years ago. And speaking as someone who walked the streets of Bethlehem just two weeks ago, reaping and gleaning look drastically different now.
Gleaning, in today’s culture, looks like faithfulness in the ordinary. Gleaning is accepting the idea of being small and choosing to play our own note in the symphony of life songs. Gleaning may be behind-the-scenes. It might be quiet.
Gleaning doesn’t pave the way, but it plays an important role in the harvest. It doesn’t mean that you’re poor or less than or that all you get are scraps and leftovers. Gleaning means that you trust God’s provision and are perfectly content to play second fiddle — because you trust He is writing your story for His glory and your good.
Our current culture would tell us that we have to go big or go home, that we have to be the chief and not the Indian, that we have to be the starter and not the backup. Whether we mean to or not, we sometimes send the message that we value flash over substance, that we prefer the spotlight over behind-the-scenes, that we crave fame over faithfulness. Just look at our girl Ruth, though. She wasn’t on the front lines. She was a gleaner, not a reaper. – Sophie Hudson
Ruth gleaned in a field of barley.
My field looks a little different.
Maybe your field is parenting your children, serving at church, going to school, or taking care of your aging parents. Maybe in the early morning hours or too late at night, your field looks like a blank page and the calling to write and share your story.
Three thousand years separates us from Ruth’s time, but if you find that you rarely blaze a trail and instead often faithfully walk behind, sharing what you have to offer even when it looks extremely ordinary, you’re gleaning.
Some will pave the way. Some will write words that you’ve thought yourself and it will go viral. Some will always seem just two steps ahead. But there is a place for the gleaners.
My field feels regular. Ordinary. Small. But it is the one He has given to me, the one He has called me to, and so I will glean.
Does the place you’re called to labor
Seem so small and little known?
It is great if God is in it,
And He’ll not forget His own.
-Kittie Suffield, “Little Is Much When God Is in It”
Glean, girl. Walk faithfully and work in the field you’re called to.
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Ps: Someone needs to hear this final word, so listen to one more thing real quick: Ruth was a foreigner in a new land. Her husband and provider died. She lived with her mother-in-law. She didn’t have a small group or a best friend or Bethlehem’s equivalent of a book deal. Life totally did not look like what she dreamed up, I guarantee it. But she did what she needed to do, she worked in the field, and she gleaned. She was faithful.
And as she gleaned, she gained respect, admiration, and caught the eye of her future husband. Now — it’s not about the husband, not really. It’s about Ruth picking up her skirt, bending to collect grain in the field she was called to, and choosing to be faithful every single regular day. And it’s about God providing enough for each ordinary day and then giving immeasurably more — just because He can. So maybe life doesn’t look like what you expected or dreamed — but nothing is taking God by surprise. He’s writing a good story. Keep gleaning.
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This post was inspired by a chapter in Giddy Up, Eunice – which released today! In typical Sophie Hudson fashion, Giddy Up, Eunice is laugh out loud hilarious while accomplishing the perfect balance between encouraging and challenging.
I loved Sophie’s other books (A Little Salty to Cut the Sweet & Home Is Where My People Are), but this time around she weaves together personal stories with Biblical stories about duos of women. (Including Ruth and Naomi!) This is a timely read (and a good reminder in our online culture of likes and hearts) that friendships are to be cultivated and treasured. We may have differences and we each have a role to play, but life is so much better together.
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Thanks for the encouragement. When I think of glorifying God through the mundane, I always think of that Steven Curtis Chapman song that starts, “You’re picking up Cheerios on the kitchen floor for the 100th time today.” Yes, we can glorify God through all things. Thanks for sharing at the #LMMLinkup.
I haven’t heard that song in a long time! I’ll have to go find it on YouTube.
I always love your writing, Kaitlyn, and this post was no exception! I love what you have to say about faithfulness in the ordinary. It’s so easy to think that the mundane in our lives doesn’t matter, but it does! I relate this to mothering and homemaking because this the season I’m in. Super encouraging to by reminded that my faithfulness matters in light of eternity more than I could ever imagine!
Well thank you, Heather! I’m encouraged by your kind words.
Finding this from FMF… you articulated so much of the lessons I’ve learned the past 4.5 years as a stay-at-home-parent. Thank you for acknowledging the value in the unseen day-in, day-out labors, Kaitlyn!
So glad you found your way over here!
You could be narrating a description of my life. I work from home, write a blog, homeschool my kids, go to church, take care of the house and 4 dogs, and don’t have much going on besides that. Every day is basically the same and dictated by what someone else needs me to do. It’s not glamorous at all, but you accurately describe what this time is. Gleaning. Sowing. Cultivating. Harvesting. It’s all important and valuable for sustaining life, but definitely not exciting. Thanks for the reminder of the right focus during these Seasons.
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It’s better when we know we aren’t alone. :) Glean, girl.
Maybe it’s because I live in a city which feels chaotic to me every day, but I love ordinary days! They also remind me that God may not do something spectacular with my life – as the world defines it – but that my being faithful and quietly living life I am bringing Him glory still.
I like ordinary days, too. But I think it’s important to say sometimes ordinary can feel boring – and it actually is still really good.
The book sounds like a fun read, and I loved your thoughts on Ruth. I’m writing and thinking in the same OT book this week as well. Always fun to get parallel thoughts from another blogger!
Let me know if you read it!
Kaitlyn, I love this! “Glean, girl. Walk faithfully and work in the field you’re called to.” It seems we always try to compare our walk to others’. We want to go where they are going and gain what they have achieved. The problem? It’s not what God has called us to. Even if we did exactly what they are doing, we wouldn’t have the joy that comes when we are “working int he field we’re called to.” Thank you for sharing this today. We all need this reminder. Linking up with you at Testimony Tuesday.
Totally agree.
I was supposed to read this. I have been experiencing almost everything you mentioned. Thank you for the reminder to be faithful in the field I have been entrusted with!
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That’s the best to read… “I was supposed to read this.” Thanks for telling me!