Y’all know I love books. I’m constantly in the middle of three or four and, let’s just be honest, there are stacks of books piled high all over my room.
Here are three recent reads that you might be interested in.
In addition to my thoughts on each read, I’ve linked to where you can find more information and/or order the book.
I Think You’re Wrong (But I’m Listening) :: Sarah Stewart Holland & Beth Silvers
My thoughts: Although I’ve never listened to the Pantsuit Politics podcast, I’ve heard great things about this book – from people with various political backgrounds and opinions/beliefs – and so I was intrigued before even beginning.
There are many ideas within the pages of the book that are thought-provoking, grace-filled, and potentially both life and culture changing. “Take off your jersey” is an example of this. It’s simple and practical, easy to remember, and yet incredibly helpful.
As I continued reading, I began to pick up on a detail that, while small, became very frustrating. Always, throughout the entire book and in every example, Sarah is listed first. Sarah this, then Beth. It took me a while to notice, but once I did I started looking for any sentence where the opposite was true. I doubt the authors meant anything by it, but it felt off-putting. I honestly don’t know how it could be unintentional, as it was the order every time.
It also bothered me that specific sections felt like they were pushing an agenda… and yet, I don’t think they actually were. Most likely, it’s the tone implied upon reading. The sections in which they wrote about how they approached specific topics with different beliefs and opinions yet but found common ground was interesting, but as a reader I felt like that common ground was portrayed as “here’s where we landed and we both agree on this, so you should too.”
Again, I don’t think that’s the intention and the book as a whole certainly points to the opposite – they write that they aren’t trying to push their beliefs but instead listen and learn. And yet, multiple times I finished a chapter feeling like there was an unspoken agenda.
Overall, I’m glad that I read this book and will definitely suggest it to others even just for the “continue the conversation” sections, but I feel that it could have been a stronger book with better editing.
Remember God :: Annie F. Downs
My thoughts: As a long-time reader of Annie F. Downs, I can say without hesitation that Remember God is different than all of her other books — in a good way. Remember God takes the reader deeper and is an invitation into Annie’s life — the good, the great, the difficult and the regular.
Annie writes as a friend, sharing honestly and vulnerably throughout the pages. You won’t find cliche sentences in this book, and there’s no bow wrapping everything up at the end.
There are a few things, like The List, that felt a bit… uncomfortable? It’s hard to find the right word for it, really. I’ve seen other reviews saying that portion felt like entitlement and self-pity. I can see that. As an author myself, I understand the desire to be on The List. There’s something off-putting about the way Annie wrote about it, and yet I can’t quite put my finger on why it came across that way. Maybe it’s simply this: as a reader, I wanted to say “I’m sorry that happened, but there are so many great things happening and I wish you wouldn’t focus solely on the one negative because you’re missing so much. Is The List really what matters most? Is that where your value comes from?”
That being said, I’ve recommended this book many times. I appreciate the rawness with which Annie writes, and I respect Annie not only for inviting the reader into the messy middle but for refusing to wrap it all up with a bow.
My thoughts: Although Sarah Beth says that you could read this daily or in one or two sittings, I would definitely recommend reading this daily instead of moving through multiple days at a time. If you intentionally linger over the questions and take time to record (or think through) your response, you’ll take much more away from the book than if you only read the daily entries.
Each day includes a “thought for the day,” a key Scripture, a short entry from Sarah Beth, a prayer, and three or four questions to answer.
The daily themes/topics build upon one another, so you’ll want to work through the book in order. Personally, I found it to be too general/broad, lacking depth in the short entries. However, I agree with this sentence from the Amazon description because if you don’t have time to go deeper, this is better than nothing:
“Any woman who feels distracted, burnt out, depleted, or overwhelmed will find in Marr a gentle and uplifting guide to greater personal peace and simplicity.”
PSA: I received these books in exchange for honest reviews. Affiliate links are used on this page.