I want to set the record straight – make it perfectly clear.

Not because anyone has suggested otherwise, but because I should have clarified yesterday and I never did.

I’m not here to judge.

I didn’t write about my fear of not answering the call or speaking up about pornography…that’s not me judging anyone.

That’s simply me trying to give my Really Big Fear a voice, hoping that it will help me overcome my fear (which has already started, because it was spoken about yesterday).

If you or your spouse or your child or your friend or whatever-else-I-can’t-think-of struggle with porn, I’m not judging you. I’m not judging them.

If you’re okay with porn, guess what?

I’m not judging you either!

Because it isn’t my place to judge. That’s not my job.

I’m simply trying to say that I think it is incredibly wrong for thousands, maybe millions, of people to stumble onto something they don’t want…and then to become trapped and stuck.

If you look back at the ideas that were mentioned yesterday, none of them would stop people that are okay with pornography, unless they’re under the age of 18. And to that I say if you’re under the age of 18, you shouldn’t be making choices of that magnitude without someone to guide you in your decision.

But anywho. For example, needing a code to get into a pornography site wouldn’t stop someone who wants to view the content. They would have the code and therefore would have access. But a minor would be blocked.

Do you see what I’m saying? I’m not judging you or anyone else, I’m just saying that something can be done. Something should be done.

Are you aware that there are little children…CHILDREN…that look at porn and then become hooked for years and years to come?

That shouldn’t be allowed. It just shouldn’t.

So let’s get something straight. Nothing was said in a judgmental way, and I hope no one saw it as such. I’m only responding to a call that I ignored for years and years. I’m in no way, shape, or form trying to inflict guilt or sadness onto anyone.

I’m not judging. I’m not trying to make anyone feel bad. I’m not looking down on anyone. I’m looking up at Him and trying to please Him and that’s it. If it pleases others along the way, awesome. But if not, then He is still happy and proud.

I want to make Him a proud Daddy.